Habits 1, 2, and 3
Have you ever blamed all your problems on someone else? Wasted days on end, binge watching your favourite TV series? Decided to scroll on TikTok instead of doing your homework? All of these things don’t make you feel very good right?
I’ve always known I did these things, I’ve always noticed how awful they make me feel, and I’ve always wanted to stop it. However, Ive never known how…that is until I read the first 2 chapters of ‘The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens’ by Sean Covey.
What is the 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens?

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens is a self improvement book created for teens. It highlights 7 habits that are the key to a successful life. In this post we are going to talk about the first three habits, Habit 1: Be proactive, Habit 2: Begin with the end in mind, Habit 3: Put First things first.
The Ghosts of the Present, Sean, and Future

We were assigned with creating a short video highlighting the first tree habits. My team member and I created a video inspired by the Christmas Story: Scrooge. Watch it here:
The Habits
Be Proactive
What Is It?

Being proactive means you take responsibility for your actions, choices, and things that happen to you. It means owning up to your mistakes and accepting your circumstances rather than blaming them on other people. The opposite of being proactive is being reactive.
My Experience
Being proactive has never been something I have thought about until reading this book. After learning about this habit I started to be more aware of how much I blame things on other people. For example I am often in a time crunch for finishing my homework, when this occurs, I have a habit of blaming it on the teacher. “They are giving me too much work”, “Don’t they know I have other classes”, “They don’t consider I have a life outside of school”. These are common sentences that come out of my mouth. Although blaming it on the teacher is the easy thing to do, that is not proactive of me.
What I am Going to Change In Order to be Proactive
My struggle in getting my work done on time is not my teachers fault, it is mine. It is often a result of my perfectionism. Rather than wasting time complaining about my teacher (reactive), I need to focus on the things I can control, overcoming my perfectionism (Proactive). I will overcome my perfectionism by focusing on doing what is asked of me first and then, if I have time, I will go in after and add the extra pizazz. This will help me complete my homework on time.
Begin with the End in Mind
What is it?
What kind of person do you want to be? What are your values? What do you want to achieve? Beginning with the end in mind means you have a clear vision on what you want your future to look like, and a plan on how you are going to make it happen. It means you have goals, and you do things in order to reach them. The opposite of this habit means you don’t have a plan and you waste your life parting and doingu unimportant, dumb things.
My Experience

I believe that I do a pretty good job with beginning with the end in mind. I have a very clear plan on what I want to do with my life. I want to one day become a social justice lawyer, I have a pretty solid plan on how I’m going to get there, and I make my everyday decisions based on what will help me reach it. However, something I could work on is spending more time completing my goals.
What I am Going to Change In Order to Begin With the End in Mind

I have already completed a goal ladder, now I need to focus on actually climbing up it. From now on I am going to commit to doing one thing a day that helps me reach my goals. This could be studying, volunteering, researching, working on my passion project, etc.
Put First Things First
What is it?
Putting first things first means you focusing on the most important tasks and managing your time wisely. This doesn’t mean cutting out all fun or easy activities, It’s about making sure the priorities come first, so your not rushing or stressed later.
My Experience

Putting first things first is a habit I struggle with the most. I always know what I should be doing, like working on an assignment or doing my chores, put Ill end up procrastinating or getting distracted by things like TikTok.
What I am Going to Change In Order to Put First Things First

In order to improve my procrastination problem, I am going to st timers when I have to focus on something important. For example when I am doing homework, I will set a 20 minute timer in which I will put my head down and do work. When the timer goes off I get a 5 minute break and then I set it again. This will give me something to look forward to when working and help break it up so it is not so overwhelming
Conclusion
Being proactive, beginning with the end in mind, and putting first things first are 3 very crucial habits in order to become a highly effective person. Some of these things I struggle with and some I am well on my way to mastering, however there is something I can improve on in all 3. Going forwards I am going to start focusing on overcoming my perfectionism, I am going to commit to doing one thing a day that will help me climb my goal ladder, and I am going to set timers while doing work.

























